On the particular cruelty of being left out

February 24, 2026
This topic gets more comments than just about anything else I post here. I think it's universal. Being left out on purpose has a particular cruelty to it. It's not an accident or a misunderstanding; it’s a searing message. The silence is deliberate. The invitation is withheld with...

On the particular cruelty of being left out

February 24, 2026
This topic gets more comments than just about anything else I post here. I think it's universal. Being left out on purpose has a particular cruelty to it. It's...

Eric Dane’s last words

February 20, 2026
Eric Dane was handsome, gifted, and yes, tormented. He died only 10 months after revealing his ALS diagnosis. It took a while to diagnose, as is common with ALS....

Have you ever been blindsided by someone’s hidden age

February 19, 2026
Things are not always as they seem—and nowhere is that clearer than in the unexpected workplace betrayals that come out of nowhere. The times when we don't see it...

The flaws in Biblically-based thinking

February 17, 2026
Biblically-based thinking can offer comfort, moral grounding, and a sense of meaning. Just like thoughts based on any other holy book. And there ARE others. The Koran....

What happened to our terra firma?

February 17, 2026
Don't know about you, but I've learned so much that I've felt strangely unmoored this past month. The revelations in the Epstein files have done something quieter and...

Put a little love in your heart

February 13, 2026
Why the world needs love now, more than ever Everywhere we turn these days, it seems the world is moving faster, shouting louder, and forgetting the quiet power of...

Hot cocoa for your soul

February 9, 2026
Mid-winter is hot cocoa time, both literally and figuratively. Something to soothe body and soul is just the ticket for the Valentine season. So a cup of comforting hot...

Why I believe in past lives

February 4, 2026
Full disclosure: I am a past-life regressionist and often guide people to visit their past lives. But is it real? The Case for Reincarnation Reincarnation is often...

Why critical thinking matters today

February 2, 2026
Why critical thinking tatters ....especially today In a world flooded with opinions, headlines, and hot takes, critical thinking isn't just a...

Give yourself the grace of letting go

January 28, 2026
The Grace of Letting Go As the years gather behind us, life begins to whisper its truest lessons. One of the gentlest—and the hardest—is this: we cannot keep...

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