Most of my most significant old photographs have disappeared. Too many moves, for one thing. But also, when M. and I divorced in 1980, I discarded all our old pictures. Including our wedding album. They were a memory of time and a person I thought were long gone. We didn’t have kids; there seemed to be no good reason to keep them. Time passed.
Sigh. I had no idea we’d reconcile in 2009. Not a hint. And now, I miss those mementos of our first life together.
So it was exciting last week to find a treasure trove of photos and mementos and discover a handful of shots from back in the day. It was deja vu all over again! Want to stroll down Memory Lane with us?
We had several engagement parties back in 1972. I think this shot of Michael and me is from one of them. We were so young and in love.
|Carol, age 20. Michael, age 23.|
M found an 8mm film of our 1972 wedding, which I haven’t yet seen. And there were just a few faded snapshots from the wedding. Here are the best ones:
|My father and I walk down the aisle in St. Ambrose Church on July 15, 1972 at 3pm.|
He’s not smiling here, but believe me, he grinned from ear to ear all day. Why? His rebellious oldest daughter had actually gotten married to a suitable guy: smart, nice and…. also of Sicilian descent.
|R to L: Dad, Mom and family friend, pharmacist Hy Mandell.|
We had a huge Italian wedding, and I do mean huge. Don’t my parents look happy? It was a happy day for everyone. And yes, my mother was a natural redhead. Once.
|Our first dance as husband and wife.|
The song was “Come Saturday Morning” popularized by The Sandpipers.
I’m goin’ away with my friend
We’ll Saturday-laugh more than half of the day
Just I and my friend
Dressed up in our rings and our Saturday things
And then we’ll move on
But we will remember long after Saturday’s gone.
|Betty & Phil, Michael’s parents|
|L to R: Michael, me, Dad at Phil & Betty’s party.|
|L to R: Mom, me, Dad|
|L to R: Michael with his cigarette; Ellen, our sister-in-law|
We both loved our cigarettes back in the day. “The day” ended for me somewhere around 1991, and for him, in 2009. Ellen is still married to Richard, Michael’s younger brother, and still has the most beautiful skin.
|Rich (we used to call him Ricky but he’s now known as Rich) and Michael.|
Let’s comment on the hair. Richard didn’t cut his for our wedding, which made my father very unhappy. Dad was old school. And Michael actually had hair. He was handsome with it and he’s handsome with out it. I’m still way hot for him.
The brothers don’t look anything alike. In their youth, R. looked more like his father and M. like his mother. As he aged, though, Michael began to look way more like his father.
|Rich, just last week. I know, he looks like a criminal, but he isn’t.|
The moral of this story is keep your old photo albums —you never know.